Hi my name is Kim and I lurk on blogs. It feels like this is a start of a 12 step program. Where you first have to admit you have a problem. I LOVE to read blogs. I read several every day, updating several times a day in order to see if any one updates. I also follow links and blog rolls to see if there are any other places I'd like to lurk:). I found one this morning that explains why I don't comment and have (up to now) not started my own blog.
I know these people I read about - better than I know some of my real life friends. I lurk In Real Life too, but since I can't hear what they don't say out loud I don't know how they feel or think about many things. Apparently some of them don't know me very well either. I've recently been told several times that I'm "hard to get to know" - by someone that has known me for over 20 years. My husband agrees. He said that I only let certain people know me. I have friends that know my life history but not much about my life. So I'm going to use this site to see if I can figure out why I don't let even people I know very close. I like me, for the most part, so my goal is to find out why I don't share that with others.
